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Hi guys! I'm english and just curious really as to what exactly 'first base', 'second base' etc entail? Could someone fill me in?! Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, anonymous , writes 18 February :. A female reader, anonymous , writes 2 January :.
It is the first time you are getting close to actual intercourse with your partner. Your girlfriend may want to experiment some more with third base before going to home base.
Definitions of bases - and I'm not talking baseball
Since girls are the ones who can get pregnant, it can be a little scarier for them, but still pleasurable. It can be extremely erotic to have your partner go down on you. You may also get a lot of pleasure out of going down on them as well.
I know this is a question a lot of guys out there are asking. What you need to do is get to know your girlfriend. Make her feel comfortable with you in all situations.
This means when going out on dates with her, showing her affection and care at al times. If she is not getting this feeling from you yet, then she will not be ready for third base. You must show her that you are ready for third base, without pressuring her.
First base = kissing, including open-mouth (or French) kissing Second base = petting above the waist, including touching, feeling, and fondling the chest, breasts, and nipples Third base = petting or orally stimulating below the waist, including touching, feeling, and fondling the vagina, clitoris, penis, or testicles. The step-up from kissing, but also a more vague term as it signals touching of the more interesting body parts like butt and boobs. Yet, for some second base is only when it's skin to skin action, meaning bare boobs and under the jeans ass grab. You know, the stuff . There are really no hard and fast rules of when it is "OK" to go to third base. It mainly boils down to how comfortable both people are in the relationship. For teenagers and young people who are just starting to explore dating and sex, understand that third base IS SEX! Sex does not .
If you are too impatient and always pressuring her to go to third base, this is a sure fire way to NEVER get there! Home base is the holy grail especially for men. Actual Sexual Intercourse.
Penis in Vagina. I know this is probably the most exciting part of a new relationship, but it can also be nerve racking!
Be prepared! This means bring your own protection whether you are a guy or girl you want to be ready. Some of my favorite condoms for beginners can be found here.
Home base is definitely a lot of fun and should be a special moment in any new relationship, regardless of age. Make sure you are ready for any potential consequences. Not trying to be a downer, but shit happens. Unexpected pregnancies happen. Disease happens. Change of feelings for your partner after hitting home base happens.
You need to be mentally prepared for any or all of these outcomes! If any of these things happen to you, make sure you talk to your partner about it. This is immature and will only make a bad situation worse.
Sex is the most intimate act you can do with anyone. Always treat the other person with respect, before during, and after. First Base - Usually happens on the first couple of dates. A kiss or holding hands is always the first phase of any romantic relationship. Expect this to happen fairly soon in a new relationship within a couple of weeks or days. This also happens fairly quickly in a new relationship, as long she is comfortable.
Probably, this will happen within the first month of your relationship. This is actually sex without the intercourse. It is oral sex of any kind. Licking or sucking on the penis or vagina. Expect it to take at least a month, if not longer to get to this stage in a relationship, as it is a serious step to take. Since this is the most serious step, it is not uncommon for this to take a few months, if not even longer. Both partners should be prepared for it and know what they are getting into with each other.
Halloween is arguably the perfect time of year to really let loose and show a bit of your wild side. You should know there is no official definition for what each base represents. But funny enough, people seem to understand what each base represents without any official stamp of approval.
Ah yes, this is possibly my favorite base. Think of first base as what you would do on a first or second date.
Second base third base dating
There will be some heaving petting above the waist-touching, grabbing, and rubbing breasts, chest, and nipples. You start kissing, and it starts getting a little more intense. More touching, the kissing gets spicier and the breathing gets a tad heavier. You guys are completely focused on each other.
This includes blowjobs and other oral sex techniques. But remember, there is no penetration occurring at this very moment. The big finale.
When two people are dating, their friends might joke about going to first, second, or third base. These are metaphors for intimate acts with one's partner. 1st Base - Is Kissing, french, open mouth or just a peck. Also any above the belt touching is included in this base 2nd Base - Hands below the belt. Fingering for girls or hand jobs for the guys. 3rd Base - When mouths are used below the belt. Essentially going down on a guy or girl. also This base includes the sex toys. 4th Base or Home base/plate - Going "all the way," doing the deed. The four bases in a relationship, like in baseball, where the partners try to get home. First base is equivilent to french kissing, not just kissing. Second base is touching of private extremities and/or apendages of the partners' body, aka boob touch. Third base is oral sex. Lastly a home run or four bases is full on, big time sex.
Now, if you were a virgin, this is the moment where you no longer are one. Might as well know what they mean before you talk about it. Sometimes it was because I drank too much.
Pitching is when a man performs anal sex. But honestly, this term, though still used, is outdated. Instead, this means the man is receiving anal sex from another man.
A switch-hitter is someone who is bisexual.
Think of first base as what you would do on a first or second date. It's more like testing the waters with a little fun kissing session. [Read: The perfect first kiss - 22 tips to make it oh-so-amazing!] #2 Second base. Now, second base is kissing, but it's a little more intense. Second base included feeling each other more, she let me feel her tits through her blouse. Still no clothing was removed. Third base we slowly removed each others clothing, but were still so afraid of doing anything else since back then sex contraceptives were not available. When two people are dating, their friends might joke about going to first, second, or third base. These are metaphors for intimate acts with one's partner. First base refers to kissing, second.
Are you getting the baseball references now? If someone identifies themselves as bisexual, then just use that term.
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Another witty baseball term, but really, I think the LGBTQ community would be cool if you just said gay or lesbian instead. They play for both teams says this person is bisexual.
I know, there are a lot of phrases to remember, since switch-hitter basically means the same thing. It can be a little confusing at first to remember everything for each base.
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